Kelly: The Importance of Not Taking Yourself Too Seriously
So, here I am in all my goofy glory. When I got home from work earlier this week, my girls decided they wanted to do a “makeover” on me. Olivia did the hair, and let me just say, it took her some time! Sarah did my makeup. It doesn’t really show up too well here, but trust me, I am all glittered up right fine and dandy. The makeover also included a foot massage with lotion and a manicure. I was not allowed to see myself until they were completely done, but I think the finished product speaks for itself. I look fabulous! They are currently taking new clients if you’d like to schedule an appointment.
I posted this picture on Facebook and received numerous comments. It’s now my new goofy profile pic. It got me to thinking about how many people would feel comfortable posting a picture like this, or any not so flattering or professional but otherwise entertaining photo, on a public site. I didn’t hesitate because, well, I’m goofy, and I’m just fine with that. Always have been and always will be. But I know that I’m connected to people on Facebook with whom I work that would be aghast at posting a picture like this. Why do you think that is?
I work in education, so yes, degrees are important and many of my colleagues list their degrees after their names in the signature lines of their e-mails. Great, if that’s your thing and you want the world to know it; you earned it, so more power to you. But I don’t, and when I think about it, I’d feel a little funny doing that. I have a Master of Arts in English degree, but that certainly doesn’t define me; it just affords me the opportunity to teach college English. I believe that what defines us is who we are at our core, and oftentimes that’s not what we present to the world. Maybe we should do that more often. Maybe if we did that, people might understand each other a little better and be more accepting of all the quirky differences that make us who we are as individuals in this big old blue world. Maybe we should worry less about what other people think about us and revel in the messiness that makes us uniquely us. Comes back to that daily dose of awesomeness I talked about in this post. We all have a daily dose of awesomeness in us somewhere; sad sometimes that it takes crazyily dressed third graders to remind us of that. Go find your awesome and share it with the world.
[Cross-posted from Artful Happiness]
Kelly, this wonderful post reminds me of something in the book I’m reading right now, The Art of Possibility by Ben and Roz Zander (Ben Zander is the conductor of the Boston Philharmonic). One of the strategies the Zanders promote for living more fully is Rule #6: “never take yourself too seriously.”
By the way, there are no rules 1-5. There is only Rule #6 🙂
Miranda, I love that there is no 1-5! I’ll have to check out that book!
I love it, and am glad you’re using it as your new profile! I’ll be happy to take credit for pointing you in that direction, but I don’t think they give degrees in encouraging your friends to look silly. 🙂
Thanks Cath! I typcially don’t need much encouragement to look silly. 🙂