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Christa: A mixed blessing

This week, Rain Dog is on school vacation at our house. School vacation, as for most families, is a mixed blessing. On the one hand, he’s available, so I should be able to get more work accomplished. On the other, he has his own expectations for his time.

In the past we’ve clashed, but by now I think we’ve learned how to work around each other. Still, I get about as much accomplished as I do during a typical week! The only difference is, I get out and about a bit more, which is actually preferable for me.

As for how it’s going this week: I’m still a little behind on my novella, but that’s as much because of the time I lost with the power outage as with the change in routine. I also had a few freelance projects come in at the last minute, and they all have “urgent” markers on them. Much as I’d like to ignore them and take my own little “vacation” (in which I write nothing but fiction), that would be irresponsible–and since I’m considering expanding my freelance business, I really need to be more responsive to this kind of work.

Meanwhile, I found an early draft of the short story that spawned the novella, which makes me happy because it contains a lot of backstory that I didn’t feel right about deleting. Now I realize that I must have had a sense about this story that I didn’t fully understand until now, and I’m so happy I listened to it!

I’ve been promised a day in which I can sit in a coffee shop and work in peace, so hopefully I’ll be able to bring together the various threads I’ve been contemplating and really pull the trigger on this story–and get back on track.

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  1. Miranda's avatar

    It sounds like your creative bandwidth continues to expand, despite other demands–that’s great! Your coffee shop day sounds like heaven. Please report back! Will be thinking of you today as I run around like a maniac preparing the house for a brokers’ open, and then head off for my glucose challenge. (Ah, the beloved Fanta syrup….)

    My husband and I are also fine-tuning our “off” time duties. He’s pretty good about taking Toddler out with him to do errands or something fun; I try to make sure I reciprocate so that he gets his weekend downtime, which he needs even more than I do. And our favorite weekend strategy: I get to sleep in on Saturdays, and he gets to sleep in on Sundays. Well, I say favorite, although with this pregnancy I have a hard time sleeping past 6:30 a.m. and so rarely sleep in. But it’s still “my” morning to use how I like.

    February 21, 2008
  2. Bethany's avatar

    Ahhh you two ARE lucky. Even on the second kid, I’m still trying to find MY down time. With the husband away 12+ hours a day during the week for work, when the weekend comes we like to have a bunch of family time.

    My best time away now is during a work lunch hour on the few days I have a sitter come and I actually go to the office.

    February 21, 2008
  3. christammiller's avatar

    Well, I don’t think a “me” day is going to happen. 😦 Husband is home sick today (my sick day was Wednesday) – he wanted to use today to go out, himself – and we’re getting another 4-8″ of snow today and tonight. Tomorrow I may get to go out, but it does depend on how he feels and what the roads are like. Aargh! 😦

    February 22, 2008
  4. Mary Louisa's avatar

    Christa, I hope the roads are clear enough that you got out to the coffee shop for some writing time. I am so happy to read that you are working on a novella!

    February 23, 2008

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